You see, it is common knowledge to our generation that crafts are a more productive use for their time. But the fact of the matter is, denying them what they want will only antagonize you in their eyes. Instead of denying them their time with video games, try to at least understand what it is they find enjoyable about them. You may be surprised at how receptive they will be of your company. And as you get closer to them, you may then slowly introduce them into crafts.
Explain to them that it is a give and take process. You’ll let them play their video games, but they, in turn, should spend even just an hour or two a week with you. And spend this time honing their skills at making crafts. Watch the sunset together as you carve that wooden sculpture. It’s okay to be on the go, but tell your child that one must not forget to relax and take a moment to appreciate life.
Do not forget; forcing them to spend time with you is a bad idea. They would understandably prefer their friends to you at this point in their lives. Don’t stop them; just do your work as a parent behind the scenes and start a network with their peers’ parents. What’s important at this point is that you do not antagonize them. Otherwise, they may dislike you for a very long time.
All children would return to their roots as they get older; if they remember you as the parent who understood their wants, they will share them with you. In turn, you can guide them to making the right decisions well into your adult life.
Maggie Simmons is a complete fanatic of Massachusetts Craft Shows. Enjoy the various arts and crafts yourself, and go to Massachusetts Craft Fairs now!
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